The brunette star was speaking about her friend's experience having an affair with a married man, when she admitted she had been in a similar situation
Radio DJ Jameela Jamil has opened up about how she fell in love with a married man.
The brunette star was speaking about her friend's experience having an affair with a married man, when she admitted she had been in a similar situation.
"I've almost been there myself," she writes in her Cosmo column.
"A few years ago I fell in love with a man before realising he was married.
"First he told me they were separates. Then he told me that they weren't separated - but that they hated each other and slept in different beds.
"He said she was sleeping with her ex and was only using him for his money. My heart went out to this poor man. He was being bled dry by his evil wife who had clearly tricked him into marriage. "
Jameela recalls how she believed all he told her, but refused to sleep with him before he was divorced.
"I didn't want him until he no longer belonged to someone else. And thank God, because three years later they're still together. In fact, they've just had baby number 2 and are outwardly, at least, happily married."
The telly personality went on to say how she didn't believe monogamy was a natural concept - especially for men.
"Now I'm not saying all men are likely to cheat. Or that all the situations involving the unhappily married ones are the same," Jameela says.
"Unless they are officially single and living apart from their former spouse, it's just not good for your health or emotional well-being to get involved in any way. "
Jameela concludes her reflection: "Spare yourself the paranoia and pain, and walk away until the coast is clear.
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